Have you tried falling in love to your friend? How did it turn out? Most of the time a scenario like this always happens when a man and a woman were childhood friends. Technically a friendly neighborhood. You've known each other for many years. You've been through everything and anything together and basically know everything about each other. About each others past and present experiences. Sharing thoughts or matters and facts of what life that both of you have been through.For many years your feelings towards that someone has been developed, that friendship is not just a mere friendship but rather a feeling of affection and admiration. You fall in love with her. You got jealous when she was on the phone with someone else, you hated all her boyfriends, and you thought your world revolved around her. All you wanted to do with your time was be with her.
Eventually you decided to confess your feeling towards her. You told her basically everything what you felt in sincerest manner. But the fact that you were friend or bestfriends is something of a barrier that somehow stop you from getting over her. The question is...Is it ok to fall in love to a friend?
In my humble opinion,I think it's just fine as long as the condition fits into the situation. If she also felt the same way and you were both out of a certain relationship. And it is better if the friendship will stay within the relationship. Comment. ^_-.hahay lisoda mangita ug topic sa blog oi.hahaha. :p
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I Thought ikaw ang in love sa friend mo.. hehehehe
Mas lisud ma inlove sa bestfriend kesa sa mangita ug post..
I was inlove with my friend before but nakamove on after 6 years of hurting and dreaming of him.. kuyaw no...?? But thankful man ko that once in a blue moon nainlove sad ko.. Inlove many times with the same person... up to now wala japun xa kabalo.
pero kuyaw sad ka write ups nald ui.. shocking sad usahay.. murag true padaun lng bsg madiscover ka.
Ayusa oi kay naa jud diay ni personal experience si darlyn sa ako post nakarelate.hehe. Lisod jud na dar. hehe. kuyawa jud ana wui.
wow, it's nice to be inlove with your friend. ang tawag ana kulba-hinam. na inlove na pud ko sa among silingan murag puppy love. kung makit-an nako xa murag manginit ko uya gusto nako xa tuslokon.
hahaha.hilig pud diay ka anang tuslok2x jigs noh.tskttsk.murag maruya kay tuslukon.ahaha.Bitaw maau na imong kaagi.=))
ahay nlng.. inlove with a friend?? hmmmp.. the feeling is KAKAIBA unlike sa mainlove ka with someone na ndi mo kakilala before...*wink
Atleast kung friend nimo dili nka maulaw-ulaw.. plus bonus pa jud ke u already knw each other na diba??
Bitaw pud kay kaila na man mo. Ahmnn.murag mag-ilang man cguro ka kay miga mo dati tapos karon nangsulti siya na more than a friend na diay tan-aw niya sa imoha. Depende ra cguro na sa sitwation.:-? Anyway thanks sa comment jean.:D
Better fall sa best friend,you really know each other. No secrets, saw each other on their very worst scenario, always there for each other but there is also a risk, once it fails the best of friends might be hard to attain again.
Bitaw tama kaayo na. Daku kaayo ang risk kay ang bet nimu mao ang closeness ninyo. sayang lang kung magfail. Pero I think it worth the risk naman. As long as you are sincere, taas kau ang chance to succeed. ;)
para sa akin lang mas gusto na friend muna yung guy before being someone special... siguro kasi sa akin lahat ng crush ko or I fall inlove with are in my circle of friends rarely siguro mangyari na I felt attractive to a stranger parang once pa yung nangyari bah (^_^)
kasi kung friend mo ang isang tao if ever it didn't work out in relationship, in my experiences there are always a chance to be good friends again (^_^)
Mas ok nang di pa mo kaila kay para challenge kaayo. dili pud nang stranger. kanang atleast kabalu lang ka sa iya profile. para along the way sa inyo relationship diha ra makita ang katag. :D
It's really hard to fall in love to a friend cause there are things change when you move your relationship in another level, from being a friend to a lover.It's a risky act cause if ever your romantic relationship with that person doesn't work out well, you didn't only lost a lover but a best friend as well. In my own experience I don't usually fall in love to my close friends, I put limitation for that for me a friend is just a friend, you felt love but as a brother or a love that is platonic, free from physical desire....I'm possibly fall in love to a friend but not to a close friend or best friend...mas challenge man gud...hehehe,wow nald nice post...hmmmm....Are you in love to your friend right now???hmmm....sinu???si...hmmmm...muah ingats
hmmmnn.nice comment. I don't really know the pros and cons regarding the situation but I do agree that you are about to face a big risk when you enter this kind of relationship (nganu ni enter)but as I said above it should worth the risk since it's what you wanted. What you need to determine is the chances of success and fail. Basically I don't have the data. LOL... In love to a friend?hmmnnn.personal ra kau ni si cinderella.hahaha. Sekreto ra natu na Aubs pm lang tika.-Peace- :)>-. Ikaw na lang share sa imu luvlyf karon para magcomment pud mi.hehhehe
hmmm nice post naLd, krelATE JUD Q.well most of my ex friends nKu.first bF gaNi nKu besfriend juD!!hehehe(manaLooy kunG baGA!!)ibanG leVeL man gUd pg frieNds daan mo.dLe namo mg atIk2 duha.f ever faiLed inyong rlationship u still have him/her as uR friends.pro ms okie pud kng stranger siya gamay pRa ma challenge pUD mo 2 know each other weLL.
naLd,c plang im sure k reLate jUd sya aNi!!! hehehe
ahehe.BF diay mo sa imu ex gang?ayos kau eh. bitaw if ever you were friends it is so true that you ever know each other and like each other's ways. thanks sa comment ha. butangi pud comment imu blog basin diay daghan magcomment didto. hmmnnn
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